For Husband and Wife ( Day 18 of 18 )
JUST SHARING (from the “Couple’s Devotional Bible”)
This article’s author: Sally Conway
Bible Passage: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Key Verse: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!”
Marriages go through periods when the strong partner needs to carry the weaker one. And then later on, the roles will shift. Years ago, when Jim was struggling through a mid-life crisis, I did what I could to carry him. More recently, as I battled breast cancer, Jim carried me.
Not only was he with me through the biopsy and the surgery and the immediate days afterward; but when I began chemotherapy and really lost my power and my dignity, he stood by me emotionally and physically. He served me as if he had been hired to wait on my every need. I had an infection begin in my incision, and a large gaping hole developed. That had to be drained and dressed every day. My dear Jim would bend over me with his tender eyes. He cared for that infection every day for nearly ten months.
In times like that, you just hang on to each other. Jim went above and beyond the call of duty in seeing that I could recover. He let me be a miserable mess and helped me get through it. He said, “I’m here to help you get well.”
• Describe a time when you were struggling and your spouse was there for you.
• What are some of the strengths that make the two of you a good team?
Additional Scripture Readings: Isaiah 35:1-10; Hebrews 12:12
“Kumusta na ang 18-day hanimun ng mga ‘debutante’? ‘Meron’ na ba?” 🙄
NO big deal 😎 (cool !). Basta HAPPY kami. 😎 na 😎 ! ! !
— maski mang-atat ka pa!